Thursday, March 13, 2008

How To Find Your Special Someone...

First and foremost, FIND YOURSELF!! You cannot truly understand a relationship you have with another human being until you understand to a greater degree the relationship you have with yourself. To know thyself is to know everything. Don't hide or run from the truth. Face all your fears and conquer them and soon you will be ready to open up to the outside world. If you can't open up to yourself and your flaws, you'll never be able to open up to the dimensions of another individual. Everyone brings different flavors and experiences to a relationship. Being open to change and accepting the flow of growth in yourself will make you irresistable to whoever you are searching for. Nobody wants to be with others who can't and won't adjust to the inevitable. Change is inevitable. Embrace it. Embrace the individual who is out there for you and open yourself up to them. Give them the truth and nothing but the truth. Hide Nothing! A secret stored away is a secret that will always be knocking on your door. Don't let the noise ruin the something beautiful that could have been. Wake up, smell the roses, and breathe deeply. Happiness is within you. Cultivate it and share it with others.